But often, the signs of cheating are far more subtle. Whether you have a fleeting concern about new behaviors or are seriously worried that your spouse could be having an affair, experts advise these signals you should watch out for.
The issue arises if this is suddenly a new thing for your partner. Again, a change in behavior is key here. The way they respond can be telling. By now, you two should be pretty comfortable chatting. But when your cohort is hiding something, look for unusual and often unconscious habits, suggests body language expert Lillian Glass , Ph. If their perfect posture has suddenly given way, that could be a red flag.
This could mean a hairstyle change , a recent fixation with the gym, or a splurge on new clothing. You asked how the office party was. They rattled off the entire guest list, all the hors d'oeuvres that were served and when , and a minute-by-minute play of what went down. Cheaters will often create long tales about strange stories and places they have been that day to act as an alibi. The existing Open Comments threads will continue to exist for those who do not subscribe to Independent Premium. Due to the sheer scale of this comment community, we are not able to give each post the same level of attention, but we have preserved this area in the interests of open debate.
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N he immediately started a fight with you. Be loyal and respect each other. One explanation: Affairs are costly. These non-verbal cues function on a subconscious level and the cheater is not even aware of how much information about the truth of their situation they are revealing simply through their expressions and body postures. We are all adults and should be solely responsible for our actions.
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